Traditional black witch hat The traditional black witch hat is an iconic symbol of witchcraft and is often associated with Halloween. This tall, pointed hat is typically made from black fabric or felt and features a wide, circular brim. Its distinctive shape and color have become synonymous with witches and their magical abilities. The origins of the black witch hat can be traced back to medieval Europe, where witches were believed to have made deals with the devil and practiced dark magic. During this time, witches were often depicted wearing pointed hats to signal their allegiance to the occult. The hat's black color was also significant, representing the darkness and mystery that surrounded witchcraft.
I quite often ask the group to be as specific as possible when describing the colours or the shapes or the lines – so, instead of just saying red, they might suggest blood red or postbox red or cherry red. They might say wiggly lines or natural shapes. This encourages descriptive language and you could even collect up the responses – or make them visible on a portable whiteboard and create poetry out of them afterwards.
This encourages descriptive language and you could even collect up the responses or make them visible on a portable whiteboard and create poetry out of them afterwards. Use them on your own to improve your observation and description skills or use them with groups to create engaging discussions about art and objects.
The hat's black color was also significant, representing the darkness and mystery that surrounded witchcraft. Over the centuries, the black witch hat has become a staple accessory for Halloween costumes. Its association with witches and magic has made it an essential element in portraying a witch-like character.
High sensitivity. A blessing, a curse or simply an observation?
I can be incredibly touched by things. A client told me that her boss, when she returned from her maternity leave, decorated her office completely feng shui style. I got tears in my eyes. Or when we left our beautiful hotel in Piemonte. The super kind hotel manager spontaneously offered us a gorgeous book with images from the region, recipes, interiors… I was moved by his gesture. Again, tears in my eyes. Politeness stopped me from embracing the man. The misery of the world can make me deeply sad. Or sad articles in the paper. Or the passing away of people I don’t even know, accidents, family dramas. I can become totally lyrical about a perfect glass of wine, even without being drunk ;).
The fact that I feel things this intensely helps me a lot in the work that I do. When I had a burn-out a few years ago, I didn’t feel anything anymore. Nothing at all. Emotional ‘flat line’. I never learned how to deal with a lot of feelings. Not emotionally nor physically. And slowly but steadily I didn’t feel anything anymore. No tiredness, not my organs not working well, no more emotions. I became alianated from myself. I had a ‘poker face’, my boss said at the time. Me? Poker face? The girl that could barely hide her thoughts and feelings from the world? When I was younger I would have been a terrible negotiator. You can read everything from my face. As a child I was often told that I shouldn’t let things get to me that much. An advice that does not work at all. Poker face…? It was the umpteenth sign that something was wrong with me. And that I wasn’t in the right place for me. HR is not the place to have lots of emotions, because emotions often stand in the way of a ‘one-size-fits-all’ policy.
It cost me some years of therapy to get everything back on track. Getting back in touch with my feelings and knowing how to handle them. High sensitivity is a blessing that you have to learn how to handle to make sure that events, impressions, statements don’t hit you hard.
Learn to recognize your emotions
If you have a lot of emotions, it can be difficult to untangle the spaghetti. Often you’ll experience a mix of multiple things, both positive and negative. Things that at the same time make you feel angry, disappointed, hopeful, accepted, discarded etc… Find a way to untangle the knot. Say it all out loud, even only to yourself. Or write it down. Or take a shower, a bath, go for a run or a walk… Take the time to clearly state what it does to you and what made you feel that way.
Make a distinction between what is yours and what is someone else’s
A few years ago I learned from a colleague Kelly Fisher the most important difference. You can be a sponge or a sensor. Her advice was to be a sensor and then to sort. Is what you are feeling yours or someone else’s? You can empathize with the sadness of someone who lost someone else, but watch out that you don’t step with them in mourning. Be a sensor and get rid of the rest. A good trick that I discovered from my kids, is singing along with ‘Shake it off’ from Taylor Swift. Shake it off.
Recover!
After a daylong training with a group I can be so exhausted that I can’t speak for a while. That is not because of the people, or the subject, or the group, necessarily. That is just because the fact that delivering a training is an intensive sport and I get a loooooooooooooot of information to process from a group. That is not wrong, it’s actually very good because it means that there was really work being done. Fantastic. There is just one thing that I absolutely can’t skip: to recover. Make sure you have time, if only 15 minutes after finishing your job. A very good technique is to just sit in a quiet spot and do nothing. Just sit and breathe…
Protect yourself
I know from experience that I shouldn’t do certain things and should stay clear from certain people. I rarely watch the news, barely read the newspaper. I don’t want to listen to people who only have bad and negative things to say about everything. That makes me physically unwell. I also try, very hard, not to become engaged in the fights my children have. That makes my stomach turn and mostly they can handle it by themselves. Protect yourself and decide what you are and what you aren’t open for. Filter.
Dare to speak up
Like many highly sensitive people I am not often as ‘ad rem’ as I would like to be. Sometimes I’m just hit too hard and standing there not knowing what to say. Do not assume that everyone knows what things do to you, because they don’t hit everybody that hard and often they didn’t mean it the way you perceived it. Learn how to speak assertively about what you want, what you need and what touches you.
I will always remember the ‘poker face’ signal. Sometimes I wish that I was less of an open book. But then I wouldn’t be me and I would be as good in what I do. There is 1 important condition that comes with it: I have to take good care of myself. If I lose contact with myself, I lose contact with the others and that makes any kind of collaboration less pleasant for both parties. That makes working in certain environments kind of difficult or sometimes simply impossible too. I had to learn to accept that it is what it is and if that’s what it feels like, it’s definitely not my place to be.
The fact that I feel things this intensely helps me a lot in the work that I do. When I had a burn-out a few years ago, I didn’t feel anything anymore. Nothing at all. Emotional ‘flat line’. I never learned how to deal with a lot of feelings. Not emotionally nor physically. And slowly but steadily I didn’t feel anything anymore. No tiredness, not my organs not working well, no more emotions. I became alianated from myself. I had a ‘poker face’, my boss said at the time. Me? Poker face? The girl that could barely hide her thoughts and feelings from the world? When I was younger I would have been a terrible negotiator. You can read everything from my face. As a child I was often told that I shouldn’t let things get to me that much. An advice that does not work at all. Poker face…? It was the umpteenth sign that something was wrong with me. And that I wasn’t in the right place for me. HR is not the place to have lots of emotions, because emotions often stand in the way of a ‘one-size-fits-all’ policy.
Whether worn by children trick-or-treating or by adults attending costume parties, the black witch hat is a familiar sight during the Halloween season. In addition to its role in Halloween festivities, the black witch hat has also made its way into popular culture. It has been featured in numerous movies, TV shows, and books, further solidifying its status as a symbol of witchcraft. From the Wicked Witch of the West in "The Wizard of Oz" to the Sanderson sisters in "Hocus Pocus," the black witch hat has come to represent powerful and mysterious female characters. In recent years, there has been a resurgence of interest in witchcraft and occult symbols, including the black witch hat. It has become a popular fashion statement, with people of all backgrounds incorporating it into their everyday outfits. This modern interpretation of the traditional hat reflects a fascination with witchcraft and a desire to embrace the symbolism associated with it. In conclusion, the traditional black witch hat is an iconic symbol of witchcraft and Halloween. Its tall, pointed shape and black color make it instantly recognizable and associated with witches and their magical abilities. Whether worn for Halloween or as a fashion statement, the black witch hat continues to captivate and intrigue people around the world..
Reviews for "The Traditional Black Witch Hat: A Fashion Accessory with a Dark Reputation"
1. Jane - 2 stars - I wasn't a fan of the traditional black witch hat. The quality was subpar and the material felt cheap. It also didn't fit properly on my head and kept slipping down. Overall, I was disappointed with this purchase and wouldn't recommend it.
2. Sarah - 1 star - I was really excited to receive the traditional black witch hat, but it turned out to be a major disappointment. The hat arrived damaged with several visible tears and the stitching was unraveling in multiple places. It was also smaller than expected and didn't sit comfortably on my head. I ended up returning it and finding a better quality hat elsewhere.
3. Mark - 2 stars - The traditional black witch hat looked great in the pictures, but it was poorly made in reality. The brim was flimsy and didn't hold its shape, and the hat itself lacked structure. It was also quite uncomfortable to wear for an extended period of time. I was really hoping for a better product, but unfortunately, this one fell short.
4. Emily - 3 stars - While the traditional black witch hat was decent, it didn't meet my expectations. The material felt thin and easily wrinkled, making it look cheap. The sizing was also off, as the hat was too big for my head and constantly slid down. It served its purpose for a one-time use, but I wouldn't recommend it for anyone looking for a high-quality witch hat.
5. Michael - 2 stars - The traditional black witch hat was a letdown for me. The hat arrived with a strong chemical smell that was unbearable. It also lacked the sturdiness I was expecting, with flimsy construction that made it difficult to keep the desired shape. Additionally, the hat didn't sit comfortably on my head and constantly needed adjusting. Overall, I was disappointed with this purchase.