The Curse of Comparison: Overcoming the Pressure to Measure Up in Young Adulthood

The unforeseen presence of the excruciating curse of young adulthood is an undeniable reality that many individuals face as they navigate the path towards independence. This phase of life, characterized by a myriad of challenges, uncertainties, and responsibilities, can often feel overwhelming and burdensome. What was once seen as a time of excitement and possibility can quickly transform into a period riddled with doubt, anxiety, and self-doubt. One of the most prominent aspects of the excruciating curse of young adulthood is the pressure to make important life decisions. From choosing a career path to selecting a college major, young adults are bombarded with choices that will undoubtedly impact their future. This burden of decision-making can lead to immense stress and anxiety as individuals grapple with the fear of making the wrong choice and potentially derailing their dreams.

This burden of decision-making can lead to immense stress and anxiety as individuals grapple with the fear of making the wrong choice and potentially derailing their dreams. Another aspect of this curse is the constant comparison to others. In an age of social media and constant connectivity, young adults are constantly exposed to the seemingly picture-perfect lives of their peers.

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Zenith -- by Encarded

Unread post by Sher » Mon Mar 17, 2014 9:10 am

So I thought there was already a thread for this, but I did a search and I came up with nothing, so if a thread does exist, mods please merge.

Encarded Signature Series Zenith, printed by the Expert Playing Card Company
Limited Edition; only 1000 will be available
From the picture, it looks like the tuck box will have a side flap like the Exquisites (sorry if that sounds weird, I can't think of how to describe it properly right now).

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Re: Encarded's Zenith - Coming April

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Re: Encarded's Zenith - Coming April

Unread post by volantangel » Mon Mar 17, 2014 9:30 am

I think Paul teased us with pictures in other threads. This looks amazing, love how the holographic foil works with that thick black paper used for the tuck box. I cant wait to see the cards !

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Re: Encarded's Zenith - Coming April

Unread post by Sher » Mon Mar 17, 2014 9:43 am

volantangel wrote: I think Paul teased us with pictures in other threads. This looks amazing, love how the holographic foil works with that thick black paper used for the tuck box. I cant wait to see the cards !

He released a pic of the courts on Facebook/Instagram:

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Re: Encarded's Zenith - Coming April

Unread post by MagikFingerz » Mon Mar 17, 2014 12:02 pm

I really hope we get a heads up on when these will be released. With only 1000, I could easily see myself missing them if no forewarning is given.

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Re: Encarded's Zenith - Coming April

Unread post by JacksonRobinson » Mon Mar 17, 2014 12:11 pm

volantangel wrote: I think Paul teased us with pictures in other threads. This looks amazing, love how the holographic foil works with that thick black paper used for the tuck box. I cant wait to see the cards !

He released a pic of the courts on Facebook/Instagram:

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Unread post by Encarded » Mon Mar 17, 2014 12:25 pm

Don't worry, I'll give plenty of warning and will probably split the 1,000 into a few batches to make sure as many folks as possible can get in on them, if so desired. They came out pretty nice.

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Re: Encarded's Zenith - Coming April

Unread post by MagikFingerz » Mon Mar 17, 2014 12:30 pm

Encarded wrote: Don't worry, I'll give plenty of warning and will probably split the 1,000 into a few batches to make sure as many folks as possible can get in on them, if so desired. They came out pretty nice.

Awesome, thanks Paul!

The court cards in the picture seems to be slightly off-center though, looking at the distance from the indices to the edge.

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Re: Encarded's Zenith - Coming April

Unread post by Encarded » Mon Mar 17, 2014 12:39 pm

Encarded wrote: Don't worry, I'll give plenty of warning and will probably split the 1,000 into a few batches to make sure as many folks as possible can get in on them, if so desired. They came out pretty nice.

Awesome, thanks Paul!

The court cards in the picture seems to be slightly off-center though, looking at the distance from the indices to the edge.

Yes they are, because that was an old teaser picture of a prototype printed by MakePlayingCards.com.

The real deal is perfect, of course.

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Unread post by MagikFingerz » Mon Mar 17, 2014 1:13 pm

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Re: Encarded's Zenith - Coming April

Unread post by vasta41 » Mon Mar 17, 2014 2:42 pm

Encarded wrote: Don't worry, I'll give plenty of warning and will probably split the 1,000 into a few batches to make sure as many folks as possible can get in on them, if so desired. They came out pretty nice.

Awesome, thanks Paul!

The court cards in the picture seems to be slightly off-center though, looking at the distance from the indices to the edge.

Yes they are, because that was an old teaser picture of a prototype printed by MakePlayingCards.com.

The real deal is perfect, of course.

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Anywho, these look amazing and I hope they'll be reasonably priced, all things considered.

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Re: Encarded's Zenith - Coming April

Unread post by Encarded » Mon Mar 17, 2014 3:36 pm

MagikFingerz wrote: I suspected that was the case. I have come to expect nothing but perfection from you, Paul

Re: Encarded's Zenith - Coming April

Unread post by lolo » Mon Mar 17, 2014 5:31 pm

Wow ! I'm speechless !

This deck is beautiful.

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Re: Encarded's Zenith - Coming April

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Re: Encarded's Zenith - Coming April

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Re: Encarded's Zenith - Coming April

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Re: Encarded's Zenith - Coming April

Unread post by Encarded » Thu Mar 20, 2014 10:01 am

That's morphing around a little in exactly what it will be, but we still talk quite frequently. Don't worry.

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Unread post by Encarded » Thu Mar 20, 2014 10:04 am

I obviously have very few, in a relative sense, to sell this time around. Historically my projects have gone through 1,000 decks quite rapidly so I do understand it will probably be a little harder to get one of these.

To make that easier for more people, I was going to do the release in a few batches. Perhaps 500 at the start, and when those sell, open another batch at another time so that people in other timezones don't have to be up at 3am.

I actually do want feedback on one thing I was considering. Do you think that with a limited release like this, any single order should be limited to purchasing a certain (small) number? Limit it to 6? Zenith isn't a $5 deck so I don't expect everyone to want a brick, but I do want to give as many people as possible the chance to get some. I don't want someone with big pockets to come in, buy 72 and then sell them all on ebay. Thoughts?

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Re: Encarded's Zenith - Coming April

Unread post by PrincessTrouble » Thu Mar 20, 2014 10:07 am

Encarded wrote: I actually do want feedback on one thing I was considering. Do you think that with a limited release like this, any single order should be limited to purchasing a certain (small) number? Limit it to 6? Zenith isn't a $5 deck so I don't expect everyone to want a brick, but I do want to give as many people as possible the chance to get some. I don't want someone with big pockets to come in, buy 72 and then sell them all on ebay. Thoughts?

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Unread post by MagikFingerz » Thu Mar 20, 2014 10:08 am

I'm sure some people would be upset if the limit is less than a brick, but for a small run like this I feel it's more than fair (necessary, even) to have a limit of 6 decks tops. If it were me I'd probably set it to 3, but that decision is yours alone.

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Re: Encarded's Zenith - Coming April

Unread post by Mike Ratledge » Thu Mar 20, 2014 11:01 am

Where is that darned boat, Paul? People are going to be camped on your doorstep soon.

I'm thinking that 6 sounds great and I would love to have a half a brick, but if everyone gets 6 than 500 is only about 85 buyers. I'm sure not everyone will get 6, but I bet most will.

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Unread post by Lotrek » Thu Mar 20, 2014 11:30 am

I agree about the 6 deck limit and I have to say that I like the courts VERY much!
I'm very excited about these.

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Re: Encarded's Zenith - Coming April

Unread post by Widdee » Thu Mar 20, 2014 5:43 pm

MagikFingerz wrote: I'm sure some people would be upset if the limit is less than a brick, but for a small run like this I feel it's more than fair (necessary, even) to have a limit of 6 decks tops. If it were me I'd probably set it to 3, but that decision is yours alone.

Agree! Any idea yet on the pricing, Paul?

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Re: Encarded's Zenith - Coming April

Unread post by Encarded » Thu Mar 20, 2014 6:28 pm

Widdee wrote:

MagikFingerz wrote: I'm sure some people would be upset if the limit is less than a brick, but for a small run like this I feel it's more than fair (necessary, even) to have a limit of 6 decks tops. If it were me I'd probably set it to 3, but that decision is yours alone.

Agree! Any idea yet on the pricing, Paul?

I'm honestly still working that out. Somewhat depends on final freight shipping costs from New York. I'm still going back and forth trying to find that balance, but I can say it will be more than a plain Aurum deck and less than a White Gold deck.

The court cards in the picture seems to be slightly off-center though, looking at the distance from the indices to the edge.

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