Have you ever looked up at the night sky and been mesmerized by the twinkling stars? These celestial bodies have captivated humans for centuries, inspiring myths, stories, and even scientific exploration. But what if I told you that some of these stars are not just ordinary balls of gas, but harbors of otherworldly magic? Throughout history, various cultures have believed in the mystical properties of certain stars. In ancient times, these stars were considered to be portals to other realms and dimensions. It was believed that by harnessing their power, one could communicate with gods, see into the future, or even travel to different worlds. One such example is the Star of Bethlehem, which is said to have guided the wise men to the birthplace of Jesus. This star is often associated with miracles and divine intervention.

The Audacity Of This B*tch

Then like me, you probably were saying yes to something when you should have said no.

We are never more shocked by someone’s behaviour, then when they do exactly what we expected they would do.

Consider my post from last week. While assessing needs and solutions with a potential client, I had a strong NO building inside of me.

While I want people to be excited to work with me (it’s so much better for us all when we are all really keen), it’s so much more important that people are receptive to learning.

Basically everything I do is about learning. Its transformational. It requires you to change the way you think and behave.

And that means you’ve got to do the work.

You’ve got to commit.

We’ll make sure it’s fun, practical, and will have positive impact for you, and your team.

But if you don’t want to do that, then there is no point in hiring me. You’ll waste your money if you resist what you’re buying from me.

If you want to pay someone else to give you a tick the box kind of training, go ahead, have at it.

But that’s not what I’m about.

So I had this needs assessment and solutions discussion with a potential client and I wasn’t convinced that they were ready to do the work. Too many flags.

Yet they had reached out. They knew and accepted that they had an issue, and seemed willing to invest time and money to address it.

So I swallowed my own No, and proceeded to create the proposal they asked for. I genuinely believe that what I was offering would help them get unstuck so that they could fulfil their potential. They had all the ideas, they were just getting in their own way by not having some key skills.

And I could see their intention was good. They were reaching out and trying.

So when I got a breezy email just hours before the proposal was due (of course I had completed it, I’m a professional) telling me “oh, we’re kinda hesitating so we’re not going to look at your proposal, so don’t bother sending it”…..

The disrespect of my time to leave it to the last minute, and then dismiss it all so casually. Sigh. If they’d just said no thanks earlier I’d have been fine. I respect directness and honesty.

Not gonna lie, I was a pissed though. But mostly at myself. I had felt a No, and I pushed it aside. They just showed the same disrespect to me that I had already shown to myself.

I think it was the slap in the face that I personally needed because I know this, and yet I had slipped back into an old habit.

If you’re like me, you’ve spent a lot of your life saying yes to things just because you are capable of doing it. And if you’re capable, you should just do it right?

A mix of pleaser, hyper-achiever, and wanting to do good in the world. But it has a huge cost. It’s exhausting and leaves little time for what you really want.

One of the things I’m most proud of about myself is that I’ve learned to say no. I’m not perfect, as this story shows, but I more consistently say no when I mean no.

I want to flip this meme to make it about me. I want people to say “the audacity of this bitch” about me. With a smile. Because I’m clear, confident, and make my own choices. I’m quick to say no and leave money on the table because that’s the right choice for me.

Then Obama will write this book about me

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In modern times, stars continue to hold a special place in our imagination. From the wondrous tales of space exploration to the mystical properties attributed to astrology, the concept of otherworldly magic stars remains prevalent. Books, movies, and artwork often depict stars as sources of power, enlightenment, and transformation. While the existence of otherworldly magic stars remains a subject of debate and interpretation, there is no denying their profound impact on human culture and imagination. Whether seen as divine beings, guides, or simply symbols of wonder, these celestial bodies continue to inspire and awe us. So next time you find yourself gazing at the night sky, take a moment to appreciate the potential magic that lies within those shimmering stars. Who knows what secrets and possibilities they hold?.

Reviews for "The Ephemeral Dance of Otherworldly Magic Stars"

1. Susan - 2 stars - I was really disappointed with "Otherworldly magic stars". The characters were one-dimensional and predictable, and the plot was incredibly cliché. The writing style was also quite weak and I found myself forcing my way through the book just to finish it. I had high hopes for this novel based on the description, but it fell way short of my expectations. Overall, I would not recommend it.

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3. Michelle - 2 stars - I struggled to get through "Otherworldly magic stars". The pacing was incredibly slow and the plot lacked any real depth or originality. The romance aspect felt forced and unnatural, and the characters were forgettable. I was hoping for a captivating fantasy read, but this book failed to deliver. I wouldn't recommend it to anyone looking for an engaging and well-developed story.

4. David - 1 star - "Otherworldly magic stars" was a complete waste of my time. The writing was amateurish and filled with grammatical errors. The plot was predictable and lacked any real substance. The characters were flat and lacked any depth or complexity. I found myself counting down the pages until the book was finally over. Save yourself the disappointment and skip this one.

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