"The Magic Words" Words hold immense power. They have the ability to uplift and inspire, to comfort and console, to heal and help. They can bring joy and laughter, or drive someone to tears. But there is one set of words that possess a truly magical quality - the magic words. The concept of magic words goes beyond mere politeness or etiquette. It is about using words that have the power to create positive change in our lives and in the lives of others.
We so much enjoyed being able to get into the mountains, on the river, and swimming in the pool beneath the waterfall. Great choice to spend our extra day in Fiji.
“ Oh the places you ’ ll go. ” -Dr. Seuss
At Pacific Harbour, hop into a motorised boat for an exhilarating cruise along the Navua River past tiny villages, farm lands, pristine tropical rainforest, deep gorges and canyons, meandering rapids and several waterfalls. Enjoy a refreshing swim in the crystal clear pools beneath the falls before climbing aboard a bamboo raft for a smooth, 30-minute ride on the method of transport favored by Fiji s native ancestors.
It is about using words that have the power to create positive change in our lives and in the lives of others. These words may seem simple, but they hold within them a tremendous force. The first magic word is "please.
Thomsons In Tonga
We stayed an extra day after the conference to experience part of Fiji. We miss the mountains so our choice was to go inland, up river in a motorized canoe to a waterfall. We boarded the canoe for about a half-hour ride up the Navua River to a small village passing rainforest and farmland along the way.
A Fijian warrior guided us to the village meeting house. We learned about local customs and traditions and participated in a welcome ceremony where we could try kava, a sedative drink- we abstained.
After the kava was passed around, we watched a war dance and then joined in the snake dance, weaving around the meeting house.
| Snake Dance |
| War Dance |
| Carrying lunch to meeting hall |
| Uncovering the lovo lunch |
We toured the village. The preschool children sang to us. Women demonstrated weaving, mat braiding, and painting tapa cloth.
We made our way to our canoes and continued our journey to the waterfall. We passed by more rainforest, gorges, rapids (we had to get out and walk past one set of rapids), and waterfalls. We saw many native birds, ducks, and heron.
| Motor canoeing up Navua River |
| Heron flying by bamboo trees |
Our canoes glided onto shore and we began our "hike" (10 minutes through forest) to the "Magic Waterfall," the tallest falls on the Navua River.
We took a dip in the clear pool beneath the cascading water. It was so refreshing, a bit cold to get into but we quickly adjusted. We swam to the falling water. It was tricky because the current was so strong but we did make it and let the water cascade over our heads. We stayed in the water until time to depart, about an hour.
| Sister Thomson waving in yellow life jacket |
Once at the village, we asked some boys if there were coconuts. One of them climbed up the coconut tree and knocked down coconuts for each of us. The other boy used a bush knife to open it up for us to drink. We love to drink the water from the coconuts. We then made our way to the bus for the trip back to our resort.
We so much enjoyed being able to get into the mountains, on the river, and swimming in the pool beneath the waterfall. Great choice to spend our extra day in Fiji.
“ Oh the places you ’ ll go. ” -Dr. Seuss
Once at the village, we asked some boys if there were coconuts. One of them climbed up the coconut tree and knocked down coconuts for each of us. The other boy used a bush knife to open it up for us to drink. We love to drink the water from the coconuts. We then made our way to the bus for the trip back to our resort.
" This small word has the ability to transform a simple request into a genuine appeal. It shows respect for the other person's time and effort, and acknowledges their willingness to help. By using "please," we not only demonstrate good manners but also open the door to cooperation and understanding. The second magic word is "thank you." Gratitude is a powerful emotion that can brighten someone's day and foster a sense of connection. When we express our gratitude genuinely and sincerely, it not only makes the recipient feel appreciated but also reminds us of the goodness in our lives. Saying "thank you" is a way of acknowledging and valuing the actions of others. The third magic word is "sorry." We are all human and prone to making mistakes. Saying "sorry" is not a sign of weakness but a sign of humility and empathy. It shows that we recognize our role in a conflict or misunderstanding and are willing to make amends. By apologizing, we open the door to forgiveness and reconciliation. The fourth magic word is "I love you." Love is a universal language that transcends barriers and brings people closer together. These three simple words have the power to strengthen relationships, heal wounds, and ignite a spark of hope. When we express our love, we are sharing the most precious and transformative emotion with another person. Lastly, the magic word that ties everything together is "listen." Listening is not just about hearing; it is about truly understanding and empathizing with others. By actively listening, we show respect for the thoughts and feelings of those around us. It allows us to engage in meaningful conversations, build deeper connections, and learn from one another. In a world filled with chaos and noise, the magic words act as a guiding light, leading us towards kindness, compassion, and understanding. They remind us of the power of our words and the impact they can have on ourselves and others. By embracing the magic words in our daily lives, we can create a ripple effect of positivity and make the world a better place..
Reviews for "The Magic Words That Can Make a Difference in Your Parenting"
1. Jeremy - 2 stars - I found "The Magic Worda" to be quite disappointing. The storyline was predictable, and the characters felt flat and unoriginal. The pacing was also quite slow, making it difficult for me to stay engaged. Overall, I was underwhelmed by this book and wouldn't recommend it to others.
2. Samantha - 1 star - I really did not enjoy reading "The Magic Worda". The plot was confusing and lacked coherence. The writing style was amateurish, with grammatical errors and awkward sentence structures. Additionally, the characters were poorly developed and I found it difficult to connect with any of them. This book was a major letdown for me.
3. Tyler - 2 stars - I had high hopes for "The Magic Worda", but unfortunately, it fell short for me. The dialogue felt forced and unnatural, making it hard to believe in the interactions between the characters. The plot, although intriguing in concept, failed to deliver on its promises. I found myself struggling to finish the book, as it failed to captivate my attention or spark any interest. Overall, I was disappointed with this read.
4. Emily - 1 star - "The Magic Worda" was a complete waste of time for me. The writing was mediocre at best, with cliched phrases and unimaginative descriptions. The protagonist was unlikable and lacked any depth, making it impossible for me to care about their struggles. The story itself was predictable and lacked originality. I would not recommend this book to anyone looking for a captivating and well-written read.
5. Adam - 2 stars - I had heard great things about "The Magic Worda", but it ended up being a disappointment. The pacing was incredibly slow and made it difficult for me to stay engaged. The plot twists felt forced and implausible, and the resolution left me dissatisfied. Additionally, the writing style was overly descriptive and lacked subtlety. Overall, this book was not my cup of tea.