The Magic by Rhonda Byrne is a self-help book that aims to guide readers on how to live a happier and more fulfilling life through the practice of gratitude. The book is inspired by the law of attraction, which states that positive thoughts and emotions attract positive experiences and outcomes. The Magic is divided into 28 chapters, each focusing on a different aspect of gratitude. The author suggests that gratitude is a powerful force that can transform every aspect of one's life, including health, relationships, finances, and overall well-being. Throughout the book, Rhonda Byrne provides practical exercises and techniques to help readers develop a gratitude practice. These exercises range from keeping a gratitude journal to practicing gratitude for different areas of life, such as money, health, relationships, and work.
This is the solution that actively breaks down the protein bonds in your hair and relaxes it. Use clips to hold your hair up. Put on your gloves. Start at the nape of your neck, and apply the solution from about ¼ inch from your scalp to past where the outgrowth starts.
My inexpensive Andis flat iron set at maximum heat did the job fine but it took me a lot of time and effort to get to get my hair perfectly pin straight. Your hair should be strong enough to withstand all the tugging, chemicals , and hair products or tools that a hairdresser will use during the perming process.
These exercises range from keeping a gratitude journal to practicing gratitude for different areas of life, such as money, health, relationships, and work. The author emphasizes the importance of feeling grateful in order to fully harness the power of gratitude. By incorporating gratitude into everyday life, the author claims that readers can experience profound positive changes.
10 Step Guide to Giving Yourself a Quarantine Magic Straight Perm
Remember the 80s when a great hair day meant bigger the better? My sister and I would get our long hair permed every few months to achieve amazing feats of teased and lacquered hair.
A couple decades later I found myself working at a law firm and needing a hairstyle that was professional, stylish, and above all, low maintenance.
I have been getting the “magic” straight perm or thermal reconditioning (TR) on my hair since 2001 every 8 months at $350-$400 a pop. It is the only way I know how to maintain long, straight healthy looking hair that requires zero maintenance.
The natural texture of my hair is otherwise slightly frizzy. Without TR, I would need to spend time on my hair to make it look somewhat professional and would need to maintain a shorter haircut. I just don’t have the time and patience for any kind of maintenance, so I’ve found that the magic straight perm works the best for me (even if it is boring that I have had the same hair for 20 years).
Six months into the Covid quarantine , my unruly roots had grown out over 5 inches and I was tempted to shave my head. I decided to attempt the magic straight perm process at home. I ordered the treatment from Amazon, which comes with a straightening solution and a neutralizer. There are several brands to choose from (e.g., Yuko, Shiseido, Rusk) but I am most familiar with Liscio by Milbon.
The formula comes in three different strength levels- Mild, Normal and Strong. Any of them would work fine for me but I got strong only because that’s what I found on Amazon.
LISCIO Crystal Cream Straighteners & Neutralizer
*Doing a straight perm or thermal reconditioning yourself at home is not for everyone. Please attempt at home only if you have gotten the treatment done before at a salon and know it works well for your hair type. Do not take the risk as it does not work well for all hair types
What you need for the Magic Straight Perm:
1. Plastic gloves
3. Ceramic Coated Straightener – this one ceramic coated straightener seems highly recommended, but I just used my $25 Andis iron which worked ok on maximum heat.
4. Thin Plastic Comb – to separate hair during treatment
5. Deep Conditioner – for after the treatment to keep hair healthy.
6. A Friend – If you have a lot of hair like me, ask a friend to help with the ironing – I did it all myself but my arms felt like they were going to fall off at the end. Next time I will ask my teenager to help.
Step 1: Prep hair and scalp
Start with clean, washed hair. Clean hair helps the straightening solution stick to the strands. Line your hairline and scalp with a little vaseline, and avoid getting the straightening cream directly on the scalp. If you are only straightening the outgrowth/roots, treat the ends of your hair with a good leave-in conditioner to protect it from damage.
Step 2: Apply the straightening solution/activator
This is the solution that actively breaks down the protein bonds in your hair and relaxes it. Use clips to hold your hair up. Put on your gloves. Start at the nape of your neck, and apply the solution from about ¼ inch from your scalp to past where the outgrowth starts.
You can use a makeup brush to apply but I just used my fingers with gloves on.
DO NOT get the cream on your scalp, because it will burn your skin. Try to move fairly quickly so you don’t end up over-processing.
Leave in your hair for 25-30 minutes. Processing time can take anywhere between 10 minutes and 45 minutes depending on your hair thickness and texture. Perform a loop test to see when it’s ready. (See video above). For me, 25 minutes was plenty.
Step 3: Rinse
The next step is to rinse out the activator solution gently and thoroughly (do not shampoo). After rinsing out the solution, gently dry the hair with a towel. Do not scrub or pull as hair will be prone to breakage.
Step 4: Blow dry
Blow it mostly dry, but leave some moisture in your hair to prepare for flat ironing.
Step 5: Flat iron
Set your straightener to 350 degrees, and work in small sections to straighten. Take your time. At the salon, they use a professional flat iron set to a temperature of 350 degrees. My inexpensive Andis flat iron set at maximum heat did the job fine but it took me a lot of time and effort to get to get my hair perfectly pin straight.
Step 6: Apply the neutralizer
The neutralizer works to balance the pH of your hair. Apply evenly all over hair, and let sit for 5-10 minutes before rinsing out.
Step 7: Rinse again
Make sure you rinse for at least 10 minutes and get any remaining solution out of your hair. No shampoo. Apply some deep conditioner and rinse.
Step 8: Final blow dry & flat iron
Blow drying your hair in the direction of the cuticles, and get it about 90 percent dry. Finally, flat iron again where needed to so that hair is completely straight.
Step 9: Keep hair dry
Avoid getting your hair wet for the next 48 to 72 hours. This is a key part of the process!
Step 10: Enjoy your super straight low maintenance hair!
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Author: Susan L. Shin
Susan L. Shin is a litigation partner at an international law firm. She resides in New York City with her husband Robert Shin and two children Ella and Owen. Read More From Susan L. Shin
She argues that gratitude not only has the power to attract more of what one is grateful for but also transforms the way one perceives and interacts with the world. The Magic by Rhonda Byrne has garnered both praise and criticism. Supporters of the book argue that it has the potential to improve one's mindset and overall well-being. They believe that by practicing gratitude, individuals can shift their focus away from negativity and cultivate a more positive outlook on life. Critics, on the other hand, argue that the book oversimplifies complex issues and promotes a naïve approach to happiness and success. They claim that simply being grateful is not enough to overcome challenges and achieve goals. Despite the controversy surrounding The Magic, it remains a popular self-help book that has inspired many individuals to incorporate gratitude into their lives. Whether or not one agrees with the principles presented in the book, it is clear that gratitude has the potential to positively impact one's mental and emotional well-being..
Reviews for "Discovering Your Purpose with the Magic Rhonda Byrne"
1. John - 2/5 stars - I was really disappointed with "The Magic" by Rhonda Byrne. I had such high expectations after reading "The Secret," but this book just didn't deliver. The author repeats the same ideas and concepts over and over again, making it feel like a never-ending loop. It lacks depth and originality, and I found myself getting bored after the first few chapters. The exercises and techniques suggested in the book also felt forced and unnatural, making it difficult to fully embrace the teachings. Overall, I found "The Magic" to be a repetitive and uninspiring read.
2. Sarah - 1/5 stars - I cannot express how much I disliked "The Magic" by Rhonda Byrne. It felt like a regurgitation of the same ideas presented in "The Secret," but with less clarity and substance. The author's attempts to inspire gratitude and positivity felt contrived and repetitive, making it hard to connect with the material. The repetitive nature of the book was exhausting, and I found myself skipping through chapters just to get to something new. It was a major disappointment, and I would not recommend it to anyone looking for meaningful personal growth.
3. Michael - 2/5 stars - As someone who loved "The Secret," I was extremely let down by "The Magic." It seemed like a poorly executed attempt to cash in on the success of the previous book. The author fails to offer any new or original ideas, instead recycling the same concepts and suggestions. The writing style was also a major downfall. It felt disjointed and lacking in clarity, making it hard to follow the train of thought. Overall, "The Magic" was a lackluster and repetitive read that failed to live up to its predecessor.
4. Emily - 2/5 stars - "The Magic" by Rhonda Byrne left me feeling unsatisfied and unimpressed. The book is filled with repetitive affirmations and exercises that quickly become tiresome and predictable. The author seems to rely on quantity rather than quality when it comes to providing advice and guidance. The lack of depth and substance left me wanting more, especially after the profound impact "The Secret" had on me. I expected "The Magic" to take me to the next level of personal growth, but instead, it fell flat and left me feeling underwhelmed.