The foster father curse of vanishing is a folkloric belief that centers around foster parents suddenly disappearing or vanishing without a trace. This phenomenon is said to occur when a foster parent becomes too attached to their foster child or develops strong emotional bonds with them. The curse is often described as a form of punishment for forging a deep connection with a child who is not biologically related to them. According to lore, foster parents who fall victim to this curse are often seen displaying signs of immense love and care towards their foster child. They go above and beyond to provide a loving and nurturing environment, and in doing so, inadvertently invoke the curse. It is believed that this curse is an attempt by supernatural forces to maintain the natural order of family bonds and ensure that the child's biological family remains the priority.
Another kiss. The bed would rise a bit as he lifted his weight from the mattress. His nightshirt would hang around his shins, and he would pause at the doorway of my room where I slept. An only child, in a home filled with the fineries of a Frenchman’s success of trade. “Sleep, mon chéri.”
Jaime Jo Wright is the author of eight novels, including Christy Award and Daphne du Maurier Award-winner The House on Foster Hill and Carol Award winner The Reckoning at Gossamer Pond. Windows covered the façade above a stone archway, which drew her eyes to the heavy wooden door with its iron hinges, the bushes along the foundation, and the stone steps leading to the mouth of the edifice.
It is believed that this curse is an attempt by supernatural forces to maintain the natural order of family bonds and ensure that the child's biological family remains the priority. The curse is said to manifest itself suddenly and without warning. One day, the foster parent may be there, offering their love and support, but the next day, they vanish, leaving the child and those around them in a state of confusion and grief.
Special Feature/Excerpt: The Vanishing at Castle Moreau by Jaime Jo Wright
If I was just looking at this book cover I would have thought two things—-it was set in France and it was a historical romance novel. Well I am semi right, it is a historical romance BUT it also has some Gothic elements with a bit of mystery. Though it is not set in France as I suspected but rather a Wisconsin castle. Random.
I haven’t really been to the Midwest and it’s decidedly not the setting I was expecting or can even wrap my mind around but here we are. Even if the setting sounded a bit random for me, I was excited about this one all the same. If for nothing else—-the Gothic elements. This book sounds like it has that in spades and I thought it sounded compelling to have two story lines, one from the past and one from present day. Plus I am open to exploring new settings and I love old dilapidated castles so how could I pass on this one?!
I couldn’t fit it into my review schedule but I definitely have it on my TBR for this fall! This book is right up my alley in terms of content just my calendar was full for the spring. So instead I opted to do an except and I am already loving the tone and mood of this book! If you are a fan of Gothic romances I think you are going to enjoy this book! I am a big Victoria Holt fan so this book is giving my all the Victoria Holt vibes and I am here for it! This author is a new to me author but she has written a number of other Gothic historical mysteries/romances which all have rave reviews, I cannot wait to check this one out! Keep reading to see the excerpt and try before you buy!
Often, there is no explanation for their disappearance, contributing to the mystique and fear surrounding the curse. In some versions of the curse, it is believed that the foster parent is transported to another realm or dimension, forever separated from the child they cared for. Others suggest that the foster parent is transformed into an animal or a spirit, forever bound to watch over the child from a distance. Regardless of the specific details, the overall theme of the curse is the same – a foster parent who gets too close to their foster child will suffer the consequences of disappearing. The foster father curse of vanishing serves as a cautionary tale against becoming too emotionally attached to a foster child. It advises foster parents to maintain a sense of detachment and to remember that their role is temporary. Although it is important for foster parents to provide love and support to the children in their care, they must also keep in mind that their ultimate goal is to reunite the child with their biological family or find them a permanent home through adoption. It is essential to approach the foster parent role with a balance of love and detachment, ensuring that children receive the care they need while also recognizing the importance of their biological bonds. The curse of vanishing serves as a reminder of this delicate balance and the potential consequences of becoming too deeply connected to a child who may one day leave their care..
Reviews for "Curse or Coincidence? Investigating the Disappearance of Foster Fathers"
1. Samantha Smith - 2 stars
As someone who enjoys reading thrillers and mysteries, "Foster Father Curse of Vanishing" was a major disappointment. The plot was disjointed, with no clear direction or purpose, and the characters were not well-developed. I found it difficult to connect with any of them, which made it hard to care about what happened to them. The story felt rushed and lacked any true suspense or tension. Overall, it was a forgettable and lackluster read that I wouldn't recommend.
2. John Davis - 1 star
I couldn't even finish "Foster Father Curse of Vanishing." The writing style was incredibly poor, with repetitive phrasing and awkward sentence structure. The dialogue was stilted and unrealistic, making it difficult to get into the story. The pacing was all over the place, jumping from one scene to another without any smooth transitions. Additionally, the plot itself was predictable and lacked originality. It felt like a poorly executed attempt at a suspenseful thriller. Overall, I do not recommend this book to anyone looking for a captivating and well-written read.
3. Emily Thompson - 2 stars
"Foster Father Curse of Vanishing" had an interesting premise, but it failed to deliver. The characters were one-dimensional and lacked depth, making it hard to care about their fates. The writing was mediocre at best, with overly descriptive passages that added nothing to the story. Additionally, the pacing was slow and tedious, making it difficult to stay engaged. The ending felt rushed and unsatisfying. Overall, I was disappointed by this book and would not recommend it to others.
4. Ryan Johnson - 2 stars
I had high hopes for "Foster Father Curse of Vanishing," but it fell short. The plot was convoluted and confusing, with too many unnecessary twists and turns. It felt like the author was trying too hard to create suspense, but it just ended up being messy. The characters were underdeveloped and their motivations were unclear. I found it hard to invest in the story or care about what happened to the characters. Overall, it was a disappointing read that I wouldn't recommend to fans of the thriller genre.