The curse of true love is a phenomenon that is often considered a tragedy in various folklore and mythologies. It revolves around the idea that genuine and pure love can lead to misfortune, suffering, or even death. In many tales, this curse is caused by external forces such as jealous deities or wicked witches who seek to punish those who have found true love. These characters cast spells or curses on the couple, causing them to face endless trials and tribulations. The curse often manifests itself in the form of constant obstacles that the lovers must overcome, testing the strength and endurance of their love. One common theme in the curse of true love is separation.
edit 12/18/2022: "Two villains do battle for the heart of one girl". ISTG IF ITS A LOVE TRIANGLE- AND IM GOING TO STRANGLE SOMEONE IF APOLLO DOES ANYTHING TO JEOPARDIZE EVAxJACKS
And the Legendary Finale timeline crosses the OUABH timeline and it is mentioned that there was a girl who was turned to stone to save an entire wedding party who must be Eva so obviously Jacks was dabbling with Eva while still trying to win over Tella. Only by feeling the brutal truths of life can you work to create change, to turn the artistry of this world into a canvas filled with more joy than heartbreak.
One common theme in the curse of true love is separation. The lovers are often torn apart, either physically or emotionally, by circumstances beyond their control. This separation can take the form of war, distance, or even death.
The Curse of the One-Sided Relationship
“We’re taught that the friends with benefits relationship works out, that the guy and the girl will make it work despite their differences. Books, movies, TV shows all sell us happy endings. But what about the one-sided relationship concerning unrequited love? Being ‘one of’ but never ‘the one’.
Last year the man I’d been seeing on and off for 2 years asked me the question everyone fears at the crossroads of your relationship: ‘Where is this going?’. This is the man who had been my rock during lockdown, the one constant in a time where everything was so crazy. He proceeded to tell me he didn’t see us working out. I was hurt, I felt I’d been served a relationship death sentence. We had been on and off over the last 2 years but during the 6 months of lockdown, the relationship had intensified. We’d gotten to the point where we were practically everything but officially in a relationship. Or so I thought.
The worst years of my life all because I’ve been cursed with a man who will not and does not love me back
Coincidentally, as this conversation was happening I was watching The Holiday, and at that moment I instantly related to Iris at the beginning of the movie- hung up on a man that didn’t feel the same way. Just as Iris says “the worst years of my life all because I’ve been cursed with a man who will not and does not love me back.” As she uttered these words on my screen, my phone was buzzing with the messages of everything I didn’t want to hear. I realised then that I had wasted 2 years pining over a man who has never, and will never, want to be with me. I felt like I had been cursed with this one-sided relationship.
For me though, there is no escaping to a mansion in California like Iris. I had to get on with my normal life. Living every day with this heartbreaking feeling of dread. The constant possibility of running into him- at least the one blessing of lockdown was the chances of this were majorly decreased, but still. He had offered me a half-hearted relationship, he wanted his cake and to eat it too. He had taken control and stated an end date. While part of me had always known this might come in the end, it didn’t make the finality of it any easier.
I think what is so hard about these one-sided relationships is that there is a feeling of shame and judgment from other people when a relationship like this ends. Many will diminish this experience, as if it’s not a real breakup, but is it. Feelings were hurt, and I had to be vulnerable and share myself with this man when I knew there was a possibility that he didn’t feel the same. I know now he wasn’t the right person for me, but that doesn’t diminish what we had and the heartbreak that followed.
I am drawn to unavailable men because in a way, deep down, I know it won’t turn into anything more.
Now I’ve reached a point in which I’m scared to get into any new relationships because I fear the heartbreak and the possibility of a man not feeling the same again. A lot of this fear comes from the attachment styles we all have. When you have an anxious or avoidant attachment style (hello me) then you are of course going to be a little less trusting and keep your partner at arms length in the fear of being hurt again. There’s the underlying anxiety surrounding whether or not they will reply to your text or want to see you again. The constant wondering about if you’re being too ‘keen’ or ‘needy’. Relationships are scary enough without adding in the fear of “What if he changes his mind?” or “What if I never hear from him again.” With a one-sided relationship, this is a common practice because there is always the fear that your feelings are not being reciprocated. Those with more anxious attachment styles crave reassurance from their relationships and not getting that reassurance is crushing, so going for a man who is emotionally unavailable is a recipe for disaster. But why can’t I stay away?
Is it the intrigue of a ‘bad boy’? Or is it just what I’m comfortable with because I’ve never know relationships any other way? I think in a way, yes. I am drawn to unavailable men because in a way, deep down, I know it won’t turn into anything more. This way I am shielding myself from the eventuality of getting hurt. Although that rarely happens. In trying to protect myself, I end up getting hurt all over again. I romanticise relationships and get my hopes up as anyone does at the beginnings of something new. The possibility of what a relationship could turn into is exciting, but also scary. Relationships allow you to be vulnerable, and sometimes you just have to take the chance. All I can do is hope that the curse is almost broken…”
You can read Amy’s previous post on The Insecure Girls’ Club: Claiming my Hot Girl Summer or find her on Instagram at @aimeesarahcarmichael.
In a Psychology Today post, Marwa Azab, Ph.D., explains the traits of a highly sensitive person and the biology behind their actions:
The curse prevents the couple from being together and places them in a constant state of longing and despair. Another aspect of the curse is the inescapable tragedy that befalls the lovers. They may face unforeseen tragedies such as illness, accidents, or betrayal. These events not only challenge the strength of their love but also test their individual character and resilience. However, despite the countless challenges and tragedies they may face, the curse of true love often ends with a bittersweet resolution. The lovers are either able to overcome the curse through their unwavering devotion and sacrifice, or they are tragically torn apart, forever yearning for the love they have lost. The curse of true love serves as a cautionary tale, reminding us of the fragility of love and the potential hardships it can bring. It highlights the unpredictable nature of life and the inevitable challenges faced by those who dare to truly love. Yet, it also emphasizes the power of love, as it can inspire individuals to conquer adversity and endure unimaginable obstacles. In conclusion, the curse of true love is a prevailing theme in various folklore and mythologies. It highlights the destructive power of love, as well as its ability to inspire sacrifice and resilience. While it may be seen as a tragic concept, it ultimately showcases the strength and endurance of true love in the face of adversity..
Reviews for "The Unbreakable Curse: Rie's Forbidden Love Story"
1. Megan - 2 stars - I really wanted to like A Curse of Rie Love, but I found the storyline to be extremely predictable. From the very beginning, I could guess how the main character, Rie, would overcome the curse and find true love. The characters felt flat and lacked depth, making it difficult to connect with them on any level. Overall, I was disappointed with this book and would not recommend it.
2. Tyler - 1 star - A Curse of Rie Love was a complete letdown for me. The writing was choppy, the pacing was all over the place, and the dialogue felt forced. I couldn't get invested in the story because the author failed to create a believable and immersive world. The plot twists were underwhelming and felt contrived, leaving me feeling unsatisfied. I regret spending my time reading this book and would not suggest it to others.
3. Emily - 2 stars - The concept of A Curse of Rie Love had great potential, but the execution fell short. The narrative was convoluted and the author tried to cram too many ideas into one story, making it confusing and hard to follow. The romance aspect felt forced and lacked chemistry between the characters. I kept hoping for the story to improve, but it continued to disappoint. Sadly, I cannot recommend this book.